We show love by making space

Recently, we all made it to church for the first time in months.

I forgot the ear defenders, silly me, but no panic cause there are always some somewhere.

Thankful for that.

We got there and kindness literally ran and met us at the door. Hands reached out like a big warm blanket, because now there's a new SEN kids group running parallel to the other Sunday kids group. And several people came straight over to tell me and open the invitation.

And as his mummy, I don’t quite have words for what this feels like.

Healing, maybe.

Like a soothing balm on the edges of my heart that have splintered.

Definitely moved that others care about and love my child and remember his needs as soon as we step in the door, and that there is a space for him and other children who struggle.

He's welcome. So often, I can tell people don't want him around. 

Indifference rather than rejection. 

He feels it too.

 

So to be welcomed at the door and invited as soon as they spot him means everything.

We show love by making space for one another.

 

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